Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Ms VS Mrs (THE UN-ENDING BATTLE)

I don't know why married women (Mrs) are always worried about single gals (Ms)... There's always this seperation in every gathering... You can always tell the married women from the sigle gals. The married women walk around with this air of ''i'm married and i'm better than you single babes'' while the single girls walk around with the confidence of hunters scanning the perimeter for bush-meat. The married women always have this worry that one of the single gals might start sleeping with her husband while the single girls look at the married women with the thought that ''would it i were the one he was married to'' especially if the man is IT...
Recently, i had issues with a married gal. I call her a married gal because we're about the same age and she hasn't even been married 2years yet. She'd only seen me once and didn't really know me well yet she claimed to know me really well and that i was a prostitute... WHAT??? I saw red... I was so angry, i almost went looking for her to deck her but the more i thought about it, the more i realised it wasn't worth it at all and i was only going to succeed in giving her more fodder for gossip. I just let it go and decided to ignore her and whatever else she says...
The one thing some of these so-called married women forget is that once upon a time, they were also single. I've had friends whom after getting married immediately turn on me with talk like ''Outside never tire you? Benny abeg find husband marry'' and that really gets me. I'm sure the few who tried that line with me have not so nice stories to say about me because trust me, i'll give it you bad even if it meant hitting below the belt. I personally find it really bad taste for one woman to call another woman a prostitute because very few women in this world can honestly say that the only man they've had sex with in their life is the man they are married to. By the way, who's to say who's a prostitute or not? In the afternoon, even the girls who stand on the road soliciting, would dress properly and blend nicely in with the non-prostitutes... How do you then know the difference? What if after you call another woman a prostitute down the road and then moments later up the road someone calls you a prostitute? Oho................
It'll be really nice if married women stop viewing single girls as threats... I do know for sure that when i'm married, i would still be the girl i am... I have no plans to remind anyone i am a Mrs if they mistakenly refer to me as a Ms. As a matter of fact, it'll make me feel good because i do know for sure that single women dress a lot better and look a lot hotter that married women. If that wasn't the case, men will not bother leaving their missus at home to chase after them. As for us single wome, let's all remove our eyes from what doesn't belong to us aka married men because we'll get married tomorrow and our mouths will be too heavy to complain is someone starts sleeping with our husbands...
Why did i write about this today? It had to do with Mr Man who reffered to me as Mrs something and i said something like ''Ms, i beg ur pardon''... I'm no-one's Mrs and may not be for a while yet and even if or when i am, i'd probably not use a title... I don't need a title to remind me of my status. HE will be a constant reminder, whoever HE may be...
XXXX
Bee

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