HE SAYS... SHE SAYS...

I always thought that gossip was a female thing... No, scrap that... Men always say that gossip is a female thing and that it's all women spend their time doing... What they didn't say is that many men do it too... They hide this from us so we do not call them ''Woman Wrapper'', the popular term used in Nigeria to describe men who behave like women... It's really sad when a man gets involved in women's ''that one told me u said that i told u she said'' issues... It sounds really silly when repeated and that's why i've been doing my best to avoid said issues...
So, i found myself on the recieving end of that bullet today... As a matter of fact, i got 2 bullets from the same person withing 3days and i'm sure you guessed correctly that it was a man, yes a man... The idiot who thinks he's way above everything and has these grand delusions about himself... The idiot i refer to as Button (of course, not his real name)...
Why he does that, i have no idea but it seems like he was starved of attention as a child so, he goes all out trying to get the attention he didn't get from his mother. Unfortunately for him, i'm not his mother and i have no time to humour idiots... If i didn't know he was a born liar, i may have but i know him for what he is... A pathological liar who weaves elaborate tales about himself in the hopes that someone would believe his stories...
What'd he do? He said someone said something then when he was confronted, he got aggressive and when he was ignored, he started whining and saying more bullshit...
After he insulted me yesterday, i sent him a text to say ''thanks for insulting me... yet again'' and i got over 8 insulting 3-in-1 text messages... Some were sent while i was still in church and i saw them when i came out. In one of them, he said an old friend of mine ''L'' told him i was a street girl and i stay online 24/7 looking for white men to sleep with for peanuts... I called this girl and she almost started crying... Told me she hadn't seen him in a really long time and she didn't know why he'd say something like that... Mind, this girl is a celebrity who's married with a child and usually very busy. I didn't believe for a minute she said anything like that to him but i just wanted to find out if she's been seeing him and if she was, for her to know the kind of person he was... She said she knew as we were still very close at the time i dated the goat but i still forwarded said message to her so she could read his words for herself...
Seems like he, like some other men i've seen see the word ''prostitute'' as the only weapon to attack a woman... Can they not think of other insults? Why do they do this? Why does he do this? He says i suffer from complexional delusions and chaotic depression and i need to see a shrink to fix me but he forgot to take a look at himself... He who tells so many lies that he starts believing them isn't delusional but i, who doesn't even bother with stories... When i broke up with him about 9years ago, he stood outside my house (where i'd pushed him) and rained insults on me till he ran out of steam... After all these years, he still can't handle rejection like a man...
My friend 'G' said to me after he left yesterday ''you sure do know how to pick them'' and that made me come to a realization... There's nothing wrong with my head... The only problem i have is my choice in men...
I'd spent a long time wondering if i had a serious poblem but i do not... I'm just someone who has pride and will not take insults of any kind from anyone... I'm sensitive and anyone i'm with who cannot understand that that's the way i am, need not bother with me because his insensitivity will only lead to resentment on my part... Besides, i have no time to stroke anyone's oversized ego... I am a wonderful person and anyone who's patient enough to take their time to get to know me, will find the diamond within...
As for me, i'm taking a break from men and concentrating on my career... Trying to be part of a couple is frustrating business and i've just about had it...
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Bee